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With Swinger Social Network, Meeting New Friends To Play With Is Easy

My wife and I travel through the United States for work frequently and are always interested in to meeting new friends to play with, AKA other swingers who want to swap spouses for a good time! Before joining Swinger Social, trying to swing was like trying to pull teeth! It was hard to meet new people and we couldn’t fully enjoy our sexual experiences, because for us, nothing is more joyous than climaxing with other couples.

Many people feel that swinging often results in “One Night Stands,” however, since we are members of Swinger Social, we can stay connected with the other swingers we meet throughout the United States. If we travel to North Carolina, New Jersey, Tennessee, Philadelphia, California or Miami, we can hook up with our new swinger friends for a sex party. We always encourage our fellow swingers to bring their friends so they can experience the same sexual satisfaction during a passionate, lust-filled encounter. Nothing pleases us more than pleasing swinger “virgins.”

If finding local swingers is hard for you, I suggest joining Swinger Social to network with people who share the same pleasures. Even if you find it easy to meet new swingers, you may not be finding the right ones. For instance, my wife and I like to meet up with older swingers. We can easily find older couples who are down for the brown and want to meet with us when we are in town.  Through Social Swinger, you can connect with people who are into exactly what you are into. Into anal? Enjoy positions like 69 or 369? Do you prefer getting it from behind, doggie-style? Have a certain fetish you want acted out in the bedroom? All of your wildest fantasies can be met! Are you a couple actively seeking out single people for a threesome or gangbang? You can do that as well.

We always hear the craziest stories from friends who participate in swinging. Now, we find it easy to join in on the wild stories by living them out in real life!

Swingers and Jealousy

swinger-jealousySwingers do get jealous.   I became a swinger to try to leave that behind along with cheating.   Both happen in the lifestyle.   The difference is swingers in good relationships talk about the jealousy instead of burying it under the surface of the relationship.

My love is temporarily half way around the world for business.   We were able to meet half way a few months ago.   We’ve always been swingers together. We never had the honeymoon before stepping out, so our play rules apart are difficult.    I had not played since he has left six months ago, but we knew it would be a long haul ahead of us and he set me free to play.    Of course I could have returned to my swinger ways without his permission, but I cannot cheat.  Before I found swinging, ever man cheated on me but I never did.  I still don’t.

I was still hesitant to put up a profile as a single female.  I finally did and  also touched base with a few old swingers friends I trusted.   No couple or man really interested me.  I’m sure I was avoiding playing, but decided on trying out a swingers house-party.  I had not been to one in over 1.5 years.   I checked in with my love and he was pleased I was going with friends.

I was excited about the swingers party, but nervous.   In the months leading up to his departure, we had played little with others.  We wanted as much time with each other as we could.  Being swingers was on the bottom of our list.

Swingers have a saying.  “Move at the slowest paced partner.”   We both thought things would be fine and felt it was a good experiment to see how we could play apart halfway around the world from each other.

It did not go as well as we had hoped.   He had nothing to do but be alone and worry if I was OK?  What was I DOING and to whom?     It just was too hard for him.  My love is a kind and giving man and even sought out playmates for me while we were together, but this was too much to handle.

He was hard on himself.   He was a swinger and in the past had not behaved either, but also never cheated.     We discovered the hard way that if he could not reclaim me after being with others, he would feel jealous.    Jealousy has no logic, it just exists.

We worked it out.  He was too hard on himself because he knows I am a person who enjoys swinging.  I love him more than I like being a swinger.   We will swing again when he returns.

The bottom line is you can be swingers for years and not find all the triggers for jealousy.   Most vanilla couples would never have survived such a heart wrenching time.   We did and thrived knowing we would work it out.   It also proves that swingers need to have flexible and open relationships.   True, at one time I could go off and play, but I would return to him at the end of the night.   That will happen again.   So when jealousy hits, take a pause, think about it and talk it out.  Love your partner more than the jealousy, more than the “point” of the matter and fun happy times will be had by all.

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