Swingers Definitions, Understanding Swinging

  • D&D FREE someone who advertises themselves disease and drug free. Generally this refers to being free of sexually transmitted infections and illegal drugs. You may also see this written as D/D Free or just DD

  • DAISY CHAIN sexual position referring to many partners simultaneously engaged in and receiving oral sex from each other in a continuous unbroken circle of all partners; see depiction here

  • DEEP THROAT act of taking the full length of a partner’s fully erect penis during oral sex.  In strictest terms, the penis must be long enough so that it slides past the epiglottis and into the throat; depicted here

  • DILDO an artificial penis usually made of rubber or plastic for sexual stimulation

  • DIRECTOR a term used to describe the principal person operates a swing club or owner; can also refer to dominant individual who orchestrates various sexual acts in a group setting, sometimes called the coach

  • DISCIPLINE a sexual fetish in which one partner dominates another (willing) participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful strikes that leave marks or bruises.

  • DISCREET or DISCRETION asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that employers, family, friends or children who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the participants swinging activity

  • DOCILE willing to receive bondage and/or discipline

  • DOCKING describes a sexual practice in which the glans penis of one man is inserted into the foreskin of another and then engaging in mutual masturbation.
  • DOGGING (British) act of having sex in a public place, especially in parks; having sex with more than one person in a public place, often with at least one stranger, and usually with others watching

  • DOLLS WITH BALLS see Shemale
  • DOMESTIC TRAINING submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature

  • DOMINANT the sexual partner in control of the willing submissive partner

  • DOUBLE PENETRATION (DP) the extremely satisfying act of being penetrated with two penises simultaneously in two orifices, usually referring to anal and vaginal sex, but can also (uncommonly) be referred to oral sex; see depiction here  (read more)

  • DOUBLE VAGINAL PENETRATION (DVP) less commonly: double pussy penetration, DPP); refers to the phenomenally stimulating act of a women being penetrated by two penises at the same time in the vagina; in contrast to double penetration where separate orifices are penetrated

  • DRAMA or DRAMA FREE negative term referring to the highly charged or emotional outbursts, arguments or actions by individuals who are acting out based on anger, envy, jealousy, possessiveness or fear over actions from swinging; this behavior is highly discouraged in the Lifestyle

  • DREADED ISLAND FEVER (DIF) condition of desperate homesickness after you depart Jamaica once you have stayed at the Hedonism II resort; incurable condition whose symptoms can only be ameliorated by frequently returning home to Jamaica and indulging in hedonistic behavior.

  • DUDES WITH BOOBS see Shemale

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