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Swinger’s Party Interrupted in Manhattan Hotel

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Swing Interrupted – reprinted from New York Post

Posted: 12:11 AM, June 19, 2012

A Swingers’ sex party in the penthouse of the Mondrian SoHo came to a premature end on Saturday night, following a clash between hotel security and organizers. Sources tell us guests at the “SiN White Party,” thrown by Behind Closed Doors and School of Sex, were just getting into the swing of things when hotel guards demanded to police the event.

    Once they got a look at the racy goings-on, the party was shut down, and all were ordered to leave — including one overly amorous couple carrying on in the balcony of the penthouse overlooking the New York skyline.

An e-mail was later sent to disappointed guests saying, “As we have many celebrity guests and high-profile members at every event, it is crucial that we protect our members’ privacy and did not allow any venue’s security to intrude on our events. We had so many hot couples and singles come out — and we, like you, were extremely disappointed as to what happened.” One event organizer, who would be identified only as Rocco, told Page Six:

“We host sex parties for a very upscale and young crowd. This event was a mixer. But the hotel security insisted on policing the event. We value the privacy of our guests and shut the event down immediately.”

He confirmed one couple, clad in underwear, had carried on enjoying themselves on the terrace, but “they eventually agreed to leave after being repeatedly asked to do so.” One disappointed guest, who asked not to be identified, told us, “The party followed a photo shoot. My girlfriend and I … were there for the orientation for beginners that the organizers offer called Swing School. Overall, it was a hot crowd and a fun time, even despite the early close.” A hotel source said: “The event was booked as a photo shoot/documentary. There were issues with music and noise, so security came up to investigate, but were barred entry by the production’s own security. But hotel staff noticed the ‘guests’ were in various different stages of undress and positions, so they were removed from the hotel. The swingers then tried to carry on the party in two other rooms they had booked for hair and makeup, and were completely removed from the hotel.” A hotel rep confirmed the swingers were asked to leave.

[The Swinger Blog editor’s note:]

Really?  You’re going to throw people out of your hotel because they are having sex?  Really?!  They already paid for the penthouse suite.  How is this different fromany other party that goes on in a hotel by others.  Ok.  They were loud.  Got it.  That’s why security investigated.  Security goes up to investigate loud parties and music all the time.  But that is NOT the reason they were thrown out.  They were tossed out because the party was starting to get sexy and people were either thinking of or starting to have sex.  Again.  Really?!  I would have never thought NYC would be the place for Victorian prudes.


Swingers Start Often In A Sexless Marriage

This is from the experience project.   I don’t have anything to add except read it well, because many of us end up having to make hard choices later.

To All Those That Are Considering A Sexless Marriage

sexless-marriage

By: An EP User
Written on March 28th, 2016
It It seems many people come to this site looking for advice on whether or not they should marry someone that is not interested in sex. The stories usually tell of the wonderful attributes of the fiance and how they are so much in love. It’s just this one small problem. Is it really a big deal? And then all the comments are Run! Don’t get Married! Leave! He/She doesn’t love you! I’m sure we sound like angry, bitter people to the rest of the world, but we who are members of this group hear pain louder than anger.So let me tell you a little about the pain. You see, if you do decide to marry this person, you will probably be happy enough, and then you will decide to have children and they will be the joy of your life. So by the time you realize that you desperately need intimacy and you desperately need to be touched and you desperately need sex, you will find yourself head over heels for your kids. And you will find yourself willing to do anything to see them smile. And this guy who had wonderful qualities when you married him, will still have those same wonderful qualities. He’s a good dad, a good guy, a good provider. He just doesn’t touch you. Is it really that big of a deal? Your kids are happy, you are sort of happy, just a bit empty and lonely.This is where I am. Life’s just not too bad, but always there’s this big something that is missing. But no big deal. I can handle it. Most days I can anyway. Today, not so much. You see, last week I decided I wanted to get a second piercing in my ears. I work in a doctor’s office and we have the equipment to do this for mommy’s that want their little babies’ ears pierced. One of our MA’s said he would do it for me. So I sat on the exam table and he leaned in close and pushed my hair behind my ears, held my face in his hands and marked the place on my ear where he was going to put the earring. Then he did the other side. His hands stayed on my face and neck and in my hair and his face was so close to mine. After he pierced the first ear, he wasn’t happy with the mark on the other ear, so he had to redo. Now, I am in no way attracted to this man at all. As a matter of fact I’m pretty sure he is gay, but my heart beat faster and my breath came faster, I was affected tremendously by the touch.Today, I was at my kids’ school, volunteering in the library. I was putting books away and was hidden between shelves in the back. I found myself daydreaming about this touch, when it hit me how very, very sad it was, that I was touched more intimately getting my ears pierced than my husband has touched me in years. And I started to cry. And I couldn’t stop. And I kept praying that no one would come looking for me, because how in the hell do you explain this to anyone. All of the heartache just came pouring out of me, and I couldn’t quit crying.If you think that it will be ok, once you’re married, if you think you can live without sex, without being touched, well, you’re probably right most days. But the days you can’t live with it, you better lock yourself in your house and prepare to sob until your gut hurts, because that’s what happens.Everyone lives with pain and disappointment. Life hands it out. Don’t go volunteering for it.

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